Denzel Washington stands tall as one of America’s leading actors, carving out a remarkable legacy through his exceptional talent and charm.

The renowned actor, director, and producer has captivated audiences with stellar performances in films such as The Equalizer and Training Day.

From his early days, Washington, who once described himself in a 1989 interview with the Washington Post as a “minority among minorities” and a “working black actor,” witnessed his career soar to remarkable heights, particularly after his role in the 1981 film Carbon Copy.

His continued dedication to the film industry over the years has earned him numerous accolades – including two Academy Awards and three Golden Globes – cementing his status as one of Hollywood’s most sought-after talents.

While Washington’s professional life has been a tale of success and demand, his personal life is a clear-cut example of enduring love and commitment.

Denzel Washington’s marriage

Now, at the age of 69, Washington is still happily married to fellow actor Pauletta Pearson, whom he met on the set of Wilma in 1977. It wasn’t long before they began dating, per People.

The couple’s journey towards marriage, however, was not without its challenges. In fact, Washington and Pearson – who has appeared in movies like Philadelphia and She’s Gotta Have It – playfully recounted the actor’s three marriage proposals in a 2013 interview with Access Hollywood, revealing that Pearson initially declined twice before finally saying “yes” on the third attempt!

“It was three times?” Washington asked his wife at the time.

“It was three times. I know with age sometimes things [go], the mind [goes],” she responded.

“Why was it twice…Why would I have to ask again?” Washington asked, before Pearson quipped: “Because I said no!”

The couple eventually wed on June 25, 1983, and since then, Pearson and Washington have weathered the storms of life together, expanding their family to include four children.

John David, their son, followed in his father’s footsteps after a short stint as an NFL player, pursuing a career in acting (you may even recognize him from Christopher Nolan’s Tenet!). Their other children, Katia, Olivia, and Malcolm, have also embraced the entertainment industry.

Marriage and sacrifices
Pearson has been transparent about the significant sacrifices she has made in her own career in order to prioritize her family, including putting her Broadway career on hold to focus on being a mother and a supportive wife to Washington.

In reflecting on her choices, Pearson admitted that sacrifice is crucial in maintaining a successful marriage, telling Ebony magazine in 1991: “It takes a lot of sacrifice on both parties’ part.” She said that fame doesn’t always last, but family will always be there.

Washington, in various interviews, has has also shared insights into the secrets of their long-lasting marriage. According to him, the key lies in not giving up on each other. He acknowledged that he could have pursued a life of luxury and indulgence (and that there have been many temptations thrust his way over the years) but he consciously chose to prioritize his relationship with his wife and his family over these material pursuits.

Despite the challenges that can arise in any relationship, Washington and Pearson have navigated the complexities of marriage with grace. Pearson’s sacrifice and dedication to raising their children haven’t gone unnoticed, with Washington saying of his wife on an episode of the T.D. Jakes Show (via Black Doctor): “She has done the heavy lifting. She has been the consistent one. She has given the daily religious instruction. She was the one taking them to school, while I was out providing.”

Washington also humorously remarked: “I’m following her,” when discussing how their marriage has worked for so long. He continuously credits Pearson with transforming their house into a home through her sacrifices and excellent parenting.

While the actor recognizes that a good woman played a pivotal role in their enduring marriage, he also said that a healthy and happy relationship thrives on agreement, assistance, and hard work.